Dear Abby: I am a single male in my early 50s who looks younger. A married couple approached me and expressed their desire for me to become intimate with them as a couple. They are only acquaintances. I was surprised but interested when they told me they have an open marriage and would like me to participate with the wife. They are into threesomes, swinging and swapping. I have never participated in such activities, although I admit that I am now very curious.
Dear Prudence: Our young neighbors may be open to swinging. Should we bring it up?
This is a very difficult situation which I have more or less brought upon myself. It all started so simply and yet it has turned my life upside down. One night my wife and I were watching a programme which was dealing with the rise in couples swinging. I rather jokingly said to my wife we should try it, and to my surprise, she agreed. I thought she was only messing as I never thought she would do such a thing. She told me to leave it to her.
This is such a wonderful post. It's like reading a paragraph from a favorite book- bizarre and honest. We all are bizarre and crazy inside, most people just don't show it. I always imagine I'm in a music video. And actually, if you really for real want to do a music video starring yourself I'm studying photography and would love to videograph you.
Dear Abby: My husband and I have been into swinging for 20 years. Should I tell Nick, or quit writing him on our swinging site? Dear Despair: And what have you to gain by revealing your feelings? If you think it would make Nick leave his wife, forget it. Dear Abby: My family has been put in a difficult position.