Located inside the anus, the prostrate is essentially a male G-spot. However, for some straight men there is a lot of shame, guilt, and confusion around admitting you enjoy anal. To these men, to enjoy butt stuff is to admit that they enjoy something predominately revered in the gay community. For these men, it is this antiquated idea that to be on the insertion end of anything sexual would detract from their masculinity. And while it may seem insane, it does make sense. However, in an effort to beat back this stigma, I asked 12 of the most sexually open men I know about the first time they played with their butts:.
The Curious Guy’s and Gal’s Guide to First Time Anal Sex
Straight Guys Reveal What It's Like To Experiment With Anal Play - AskMen
Last Updated on June 28, Having sex can be a scary, nerve-racking experience. I can remember bottoming for the first time — I had absolutely no idea where to start. As a result, it was painful, embarrassing and not very fun.
Is sex painful the first time?
Despite increasing pop culture coverage, anal sex is still heavily stigmatized. While this might be true for some women, assuming it goes for all women is completely unfair. Woman A: It honestly does hurt, be prepared, and use lots of lube if you want an easier time. Woman B: At times, it can be uncomfortable, but I don't recall that it ever really hurt.
Finding someone for your first time can be hard. I knew that I wanted someone to fuck me, but I was just too nervous. I had been out to a gay bar once, but within minutes I had a much older guy telling me how he wanted to cram his dick down my throat and so I left. I decided to use a free gay dating site to find a man. I made it clear in my profile that I was looking for something casual for my first time.